When I say Doula you say…

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I think that there tends to be a “stereotypical” idea that a doula is a hippie, drum beating, chanting, essential oil using, only un-medicated vaginal birth supporting, feminist woman. The truth is like society, doulas come in all shapes, sizes, colors, religions, political beliefs, and genders. When I decided to become a doula I had some of my own assumptions shattered. As...

Why I won’t say “Fed is Best”

Why I won’t say “Fed is Best” There are a lot of people that are beginning to use the phrase “fed is best”. This phrase is meant to demonstrate the non-biased support of a doula or other professional support person in regards to supporting a family’s choice to either breast or bottle feed… and I don't like the phrase. I get why the phrase has become popular and I agree with...

Serving Oklahoma

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Serving Oklahoma Why I choose to serve If given the choice between master and servant I think that many people would choose to be the master. Our society is very driven by the idea of being in control of our own lives even to the point of isolating ourselves from others. Unfortunately being a servant is seen as being less than, inferior to, or not in control of one’s self b...