Why I won’t say “Fed is Best”

Why I won’t say “Fed is Best” There are a lot of people that are beginning to use the phrase “fed is best”. This phrase is meant to demonstrate the non-biased support of a doula or other professional support person in regards to supporting a family’s choice to either breast or bottle feed… and I don't like the phrase. I get why the phrase has become popular and I agree with...

Why A Doula?

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Why Did I Become A Doula? Authored by Devon Mullins; Owner, CLC, CYBE, HCHD, Birth/Postpartum Doula I attended my first birth when I was 4 years old. Of course all I remember is being told by my Aunt Selena to stay up against the wall and out of the way while my mom gave birth to my little brother. My next experience in the labor and delivery room was when I was 10 years ol...

Breastfeeding support in Claremore

Lactation services in Claremore The winds of change are beginning to blow in the Claremore area for pregnant and newly postpartum families. While there aren’t as many options in Claremore for care providers as the larger cities like Tulsa, there have historically been even less options for Doulas and breastfeeding support. We at At First Sight Doula Services LLC are working to...

Postpartum Depression without the Depression

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My experience with Postpartum Mood Disorder They Said… They said I would fall in love as soon as I set eyes on him, they said I would immediately bond, they said I would know what it meant to be a mother. They were wrong. I didn’t fall in love when I looked at him. I didn’t bond immediately either. What was wrong with me? Why didn’t I feel like I expected to?  All of thos...

Serving Oklahoma

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Serving Oklahoma Why I choose to serve If given the choice between master and servant I think that many people would choose to be the master. Our society is very driven by the idea of being in control of our own lives even to the point of isolating ourselves from others. Unfortunately being a servant is seen as being less than, inferior to, or not in control of one’s self b...